I was a little skeptical at first, sorta the whole "I'm afraid to appear slutty" thing.But as he pointed out, I am clearly drawing the lines...Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. It's safe because no one knows my information until I say so, and there's chance I'm going to be follow home from the bar/club, or that a drug is going to be slipped into my drink, or whatever.
I've yet to have a normal conversation with anyone but a gay guy who likes video games like I do, so we could talk about a mutual interest and strike up a friendship. they will usually tell you in the first 30 seconds to 15 minutes.Open up the profile and it's not full of sexual overtones.I have no problem changing the stupid tag, but seriously... I try to give these guys an opportunity to have a normal conversation, so that's why they don't go on ignore immediately, but they don't take it. I suggest sticking to email until you know a little more about someone, before moving on to IM or whatever.I still highly recomend getting an overhaul on the profile. He didn't write it for me, but rather directed me to write it from a male perspective.You are very good at getting your point accross in this thread. If you read my profile now, there's a lot more sexual content on it then before.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.