Your own survival is crucial, and if you do happen to fall in love with a married man, there are several hard truths you need to know. The needs of the many (namely, his family) will always outweigh your needs.
His family will always come first, and that includes his wife. The beginning of an affair is romantic and naughty at the same time.
Its not that all married men are deceptive and villainous in nature, but certainly, if the man you are dating now has tried his chances on a woman other than his wife, then there is no guarantee that he is not going to dump you.
Dating married men might be an adventurous and the most beautiful thing in the beginning, but the after effects that it displays can ruin your life later.
If this is the attitude that you keep, guess you must take a minute to read on.
If at present you are dating a married man, the most sensible thing to do as an independent and sensible woman, is to end the relationship as quickly as possible.
For most of the times, the woman who comes second eventually remains the second.
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