The only way to fix this is to dump this him when you’re done reading this.You probably won’t do it, Barb, but I’m really hoping that you do. If he doesn’t think you are good enough, why would you think he is? Put it this way: I don’t go to Amazon to browse books. There IS a temptation, for both men and women, to try to continually “trade up”.But the whole point of dating – for most of us, anyway – is to find one person that makes you want to quit altogether.If this is you, stop right here and please check out the Journey Inward and start doing some inner work. You won’t likely find him still active on a dating site.
The first thing here for you to consider before you start to analyze this to death is what made you check the dating site in the first place?
We are not in our Feminine Energy when we act bat shit crazy and it’s just not attractive. Consider how you discovered this gut wrenching piece of information.
I personally still get emails from Match saying I have messages or so and so winked and I haven’t logged onto that site in over two years.
My boyfriend – who is over 60 – has had more dates than anyone I know and still receives notifications of women who have emailed him constantly.
He has told me about some of them and still hears from many of them. Whenever I have to go to a social function, it shows that he has been on reviewing matches sent to him.
He did it on his own and problem was resolved with no drama. you need to seriously consider if it’s time to walk away from the relationship: If a man is still active on a dating site, his options are open and you options should remain open as well. Listen to these two classes to really deal with this the Goddessy Way: “How To be High Value And Easy To Lose And How It Can Inspire Men To Step Up” and “How To Manage Your Emotional Investment When He’s Been Stepping Up But Hasn’t Claimed You.” Even when he has claimed you verbally, your job to observe never stops.