Once I let go of the motivation to be coupled up, I lost that sense of urgency because I realized that being single is not unpleasant.
I may not have had a significant other, but I had prospects.
Back when FOMO was keeping me glued to my apps, I wish someone had reassured me other prospects would come my way if I looked up for a second.2.
Online dating is addictive Right after I decided to stop going on OKCupid, I actually had to stop my hands from typing the "o" into my browser when I wanted a work break (OK I slipped up a few times, I'll admit it).
Being single for a while is really not a problem When I was online dating, I was getting worried that I'd been single for —as if that was a lot.
I wondered what was wrong with me that made my dating attempts unsuccessful.
" I projected confidence, and I wasn't willing to settle.