The profusion of kinky folk can get fairly terrifying at times, especially if, like me, your sexual appetites are fairly tame.
One woman sent me an email with a five point list of things she wanted to do to me.
Long story short, it involved going to her sex dungeon and being locked in a cage while she choked me and her husband relieved himself on me.
The message ended in the most English way imaginable: "Do let me know if that sounds like your cup of tea". Call me a prude, but urine-soaked homoerotic strangulation is not my cup of tea at all.
Ok Cupid (OKC) stands out because it is one of the biggest dating sites out there.
It's has 30 million active users, with a million logging in every day.
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The site as an absolute hive of polyamorous kinksters, furries and other assorted people at the odd end of the dating site pool.
One person I know went on the site, answered as many messages as she could manage, didn't bother writing a profile, found a guy with a 99pc match, and is still with him today.
As for me, well, I think my experience of the site was typical.
As few people actually bother deleting their profile, part of the torment of using OKC is wondering whether the person you've messaged is ignoring you or simply met a lovely bloke six months ago.
Mind you, it’s not all bad – there are plenty of lovely women on there, and the site has a huge success rate in matching partners.
There are different levels of this pestery – few people get as many creepy messages as Asian women (documented here).