I (she/her) started using Ok Cupid recently, and a couple days ago, my coworker (he/him) who I don’t know well but see around often (we work at a very small company) sent me a message.I know it can be fun to send a couple silly messages back and forth when you see your friends on these sites without making it weird, but I don’t think this is that.
He stares at me a lot when we are together and it makes me feel uncomfortable, like he is waiting to kiss me instead of enjoying time hanging out together.In fact, your nerdy hubby might even revel in the moments that he gets to demonstrate his technical prowess for you! Uncle Jim the plumber can come over and fix it for a couple hours’ worth of computer debugging. Geeks are very passionate about stuff — lots of it.An added bonus — you can use said knowledge as a bartering tool. Whether he’s into video gaming, role playing, or building new computers from scratch — your geeky husband has interesting hobbies of his own. They spend hours thinking up alternate universes with detailed character names and descriptions for role playing games, and some of them even design and build original video games and computer programs.However, things got awkward anyway, because coworker continued sending messages despite my polite attempts to disengage (“[Cool, unsolicited weekend plan you shared] sounds fun. ” …and then he’d send another message trying to continue the conversation.) I read and did not respond to the last message.I’m sure I should communicate that I feel uncomfortable chatting with a coworker on a dating site, so do you have any scripts for that? And I’m a single guy, and I know absolutely nothing about dating. Besides, didn’t you inspire that one dude, Joshua Harris, to write an entire book about how dating was horrible and that real Christians shouldn’t waste their time with such trivial nonsense? And thus, I will proceed to give you Geoffrey’s “Super-Fantastic Dating Primer for Catholic Girls.” I thought deep thoughts over breakfast this morning, and Catholics love lists, so of course, I made a list of eight points.